A Cure for Anxiety

Every one is anxious about something. What is nagging at your soul? Maybe you are anxious about work, your children, or your messy house. The other day I was reading a familiar verse, Philippians 4:6, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”  How are you doing with that? I took out a index card and wrote down all the things I am anxious about. I was surprised how long the list was. Then I asked myself, “How many of these items am I praying about? Which of these am I taking to the Lord in prayer?” I realized I was not seeking God with regards to these things. I now have my card with all my anxious items I am taking to God in prayer. God wants us to be prayerful instead of anxious. So, I encourage you to do this exercise. Write down everything thing that has you anxious. Begin to take these to the Lord in prayer. It may not change your situation, but it will certainly change your attitude toward the situation.

An Unfinished Life

My house is full of unfinished projects. I have windows that need to be replaced. A few picture frames still contain photos that came with the frame. I recently spotted a family fun night kit on a book shelf. It contains recipes and games for the entire family. Lori and I bought it several years ago at a marriage conference. It still has not been opened. I am sure you have your own list of unfinished projects. We have good intentions, but never follow through on things. Maybe we don’t have time or energy. Maybe we like the idea of something rather than the reality of it. Maybe we still plan to get to it one day. The day never seems to arrive.

I think these little projects are a reminder of life. We will never complete every task we set out to. We will never fulfill every dream. We will never check every box. When we die, and are put in a box, we will leave behind a list of good intentions and a pile of unfinished tasks. That is why it is so important to do what really matters. Let’s not neglect the most important realities of life. We better not neglect our faith. We better not abandon leading our families in the ways of the Lord. We must not fail to point others to Christ. Let your unfinished projects remind you of the brevity of life and what little time you have to do what matters most.

My Time at Angola

I just served time at Angola Prison. I was not there as a prisoner of course, but a servant of Christ. AWANA Ministries sponsored an event called Returning Hearts. It is a day of celebration when children reunite with their fathers. It is the only time many of the prisoners see their children all year. I am not one who usually cries, but I teared up when I saw the children running full speed to give their father’s a big hug and kiss. I was reminded how blessed I am to have my own children, whom I have the freedom and privilege to see everyday. My friend and I were paired with a family of five children who were reunited with their grandfather. We served as chaperons for the children. The dynamic was weird at first. At lunch things changed. We all sat down to eat, and it felt like we were all a real family. I really had nothing in common with this family. Yet, it felt like we had a common bond. Towards the end of the day I especially bonded with one of the teenage children. She was asking me numerous questions about God. This experience reminded me of the blessing of service. Christ has called us to serve others. It is time consuming. It is not always easy. It is always a blessing. I was also reminded of the freedom we have in Christ. Many of the prisoners were free inwardly because they follow Christ. Some of them are more free than many of us who are not incarcerated. Enjoy your freedom in Christ and use it to serve others.  

Gays, God, and Basketball

Jason Collins, an NBA player, has come out of the closet. He is the first openly gay player in major team sports. After expressing his homosexuality, the media has gone gaga. He is being lauded as a hero and likened to Jackie Robinson, who broke the color barrier in baseball. Police officers and soldiers are heroes. Men who are faithful husbands and fathers are heroes. Jason Collins is no hero. He is openly living in sexual sin. I do not fear homosexuals, but I do fear God. It doesn’t matter what Jason Collins, or culture says, God says homosexuality is a sin. It is a sexual sin just as is adultery and fornication. Christians are not to throw stones at or hate homosexuals. But, we are not to embrace or approve their sins. Would someone be applauded for being the first NBA player to rob a bank? Would the media salivate over someone being the first athlete to admit beating his wife or not paying child support? Yet, people are excited and encouraged by Jason Collins openly admitting his sinful lifestyle. We are told to be tolerant and accept everyone’s personal views, yet people will not tolerate a Christian’s choice to obey God and call sin a sin. Society is “tolerant” of everyone’s views, except those based on God and the Bible. God help us as a nation.  

Thoughts on the Boston Marathon

For most serious runners, running the Boston Marathon is the ultimate goal. It is the marathon par excellence. I have completed numerous marathons, but none have been Boston. Though it has been a dream/goal of mine. When I heard the tragic news of the attack it made me pause to think and consider. What if I did run Boston this year? What if that were my family or me harmed by the explosions? Some were not so fortunate. A few lost a loved one in the tragedy. For others, their lives will never be the same. Some of the runners, who love and live for running, will not be able to run again. It is a sobering reminder that earth is full of pain and sorrow and sin. Regardless of how civilized or protected our society may be, evil still lurks. The only solution is Jesus Christ. In Him, we have been freed from our sin. In Him, we have victory over sin and Satan. In Him, we have hope of eternal life. While we cannot be guaranteed safety and security here on earth, we are guaranteed eternal life. I pray the events in Boston will draw our nation closer to God. He is the hope of our nation and the world.

Musings from a Marathon

I ran the Baton Rouge Beach Marathon on Saturday, December 1. It was a pretty day, and I had a nice run. It was my fifth complete marathon [26.2 miles]. While running I saw a sign that read, “Run 26.2 miles because 26.3 miles would be just crazy!” After the marathon I was in much pain, and will be for several days thereafter. Yet, I am eager to run another one. You may wonder why people run marathons. Here are a few reasons:

  1. To achieve something, a marathon may be a goal or dream or on the bucket list
  2. To overcome something, people run to cope with the problems of life
  3. To push the limits, to get outside one’s comfort zone
  4. To be physically fit

I am certain most people could run and complete a marathon. But, it takes lots of training and discipline. To achieve anything worthwhile in life it takes training and discipline. If you want to get a degree, lose weight, or learn a craft, it takes training and discipline. It is even needed in your walk with Christ. Do you want to be more like Christ? Do you want to read your Bible more? Do you want to improve your prayer life? It takes training and discipline. 1 Timothy 1:7 says, “Discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness.” You might decide to run a marathon. That would be great! Regardless, challenge yourself to grow in your walk with Christ. Press on. Don’t give up. Pursue and enjoy God!

10 More Minutes!

The alarm goes off. How do you respond? I confess I often hit the snooze button. It gives me 10 more minutes! Sometimes I hit the snooze button more than once. 10 minutes turns into 20 or 30. Sleep is good and a gift from God, but we can become lazy and unproductive. I am reminded of Proverbs 24:33-34, “A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come upon you like a robber, and want like an armed man.” An extra 10 minutes here and there can rob you of precious time. What if you took back those 10 snoozing minutes over the course of one week? You would get back 1 hour and 10 minutes. Just think of what you could do with that extra time. You could spend time praying, catching up on the news, or enjoying a cup of coffee with a loved one. Do you really need 10 extra minutes of sleep? Redeem those extra 10 minutes. Stop snoozing and start living!

I danced with my daughter

I danced with my daughter this morning. She is almost 4 and loves being a princess. Here is the good news – I am her prince! We spend a lot of time dancing and pretending. I relish these moments. It is easy for me at times to think, “Okay, I danced with you. I need to get on to the work of the day.” Then I am reminded that life is short. One day the last thing she will want to do is dance with her dad.  Relish the moments. Life is short. It is tempting to be more concerned about your project at work or the television show you must get back to. Embrace the little blessings around you whether it is dancing with your daughter, holding your spouse’s hand, or spending quality time with a friend.

Follow up on “A Serious Challenge”

Last week I issued a serious challenge. Ask three people [preferably total strangers] this question, “How can I pray for you?” For me, it was an amazing adventure. The first person I asked was a worker at Krispy Kreme. She responded she was having some emotional issues and almost began to cry. The second person, a Target employee, gave me her prayer requests. One of her requests was regarding her little girl. She pulled out her cell phone and showed me a picture of her daughter! The third was at the McDonald’s drive through. I asked her the question and she began sharing her struggles to work, raise a daughter, and go to school. My wife was with me on this encounter and was taken back at the girl’s response. This is what I have learned from the challenge. First of all, people want to be prayed for. No one rejected my offer. Now, someone will down the road, but that will not be the common response. Secondly, when you ask to pray for them, people begin to open up and share their life with you. They need to know someone cares for them. They want others to listen. I was reminded that workers I came across, at McDonalds, etc, are real people too. They need people to reach out and love them. Thirdly, this is a great way to share the Gospel with people. Each person let their guard down and shared with me. That is a great opportunity to tell them why you are praying for them and how God has changed your life. I am going to strive to do this on a more regular basis, whether I am at a drive-through, at Wal-Mart, or at the doctor’s office, for instance. People need Jesus. Show them you care for them by asking this simple question, “How can I pray for you?”

A Serious Challenge

I want to issue a serious challenge. This week ask three people, “How can I pray for you?” Don’t ask your spouse or children, though it is important to pray for them. Instead, ask three total strangers or three people you know are lost and/or unchurched. This type of question shows people you truly care about them and it may open doors to share the Gospel. When you see someone pumping gas, at Wal-Mart, or in your neighborhood, say “I am going to have a time of prayer in a little while. How can I pray for you?” This exercise will also help you look beyond yourself and make you more comfortable talking with others about God and the things of God. This time next week I am going to write about my three encounters. I hope you will take this challenge by seeking out and praying for three people as well.